FAQ:
How much does it cost?
There is no charge for these events. The only costs you will have is from what you drink and/or eat. This is not an entire bar take-over even though 90% of the people there are part of the group. Having said that...some discretion needs to be used.

What is the dress code?
The venues we use ARE NOT Swingers clubs. You will see people dressed in out-right sexy, revealing clothing all the way down to jeans and t-shirts.
You can dress as sexy as you want and outfits can be as sheer as you'd like but nudity is a NO NO. Exposed Body Parts are a "borderline issue" and should probably fall in your definition of Discretion. Remember, there are "Vanilla" customers in there who either might be offended or (worse) might take it as an open invitation for un-acceptable advances.

What are the members like?
Our group consists primarily of committed couples between the ages of 21 and 65. The majority are in their 30s to 50s.
One of the most common concerns people have when considering attending one of our socials is whether they will be out of place or not find people in their age group. The fact is that there are people from most age groups and body types at every social.
Most members are well educated, polite and friendly.
There are a couple single men and quite a few single women in the club, but we closely control the number of single men to 1 for every 10 couples at a social. If too many single guys arrive the latest arriving ones will be asked to leave.

What about playing?
Sexual Activity of any kind is "Absolutely Prohibited". This isn't a Swinger's Club. It's a bar that just happens to have alot of Swingers in it.
We all have sexy fun that gets everyone's libido kicked into high gear and there are tons of "After Parties" for you to attend and satisfy those lusty urges ator arrange to have your own after party. 

What about the bar staff?
The owners and the staff love our energy and the fun we have so they go to exceptional lengths to take care of us. If you have any questions or concerns about the staff please notify us. We love to here your feedback on improving our events.
To answer a question often asked about the folks there...No they are not part of the Lifestyle but they are friends and very accepting and understanding of us.

Is there entertainment?
We have Karaoke at alot of our events hosted by Cindy of Star Karaoke Entertainment and DJ Services. Other times theres a DJ or Band.

Do you have theme nights?
Yes we do. We had a PJ party that was a huge success there were prizes from local adult store & tattoo place. Also a raffle & best PJ's contest. The valentines theme one with a booth set up by Passion Parties. In the future we are planning a toga party, a Luau & many more. Check back often for future events. 

What is your policy on single men?

All single guys MUST email us to get prior approval to attend.  We need to know your screenname on which ever lifestyle site you are on which includes a completely filled out profile & pictures that we can see.
The question has been repeatedly brought up by many people regarding single men at the Meet & Greet so here's the painful unvarnished truth. There are many single men out there who have a less than accurate view of what the Lifestyle is or isn't so we're going to try and clear a few of them up here. Single Men are not neccessarily discouraged from attending this event however there are some things (and ground rules) you may want to know in advance.
We DO have single men at the event. Many of them are long standing friends who have been in the Lifestyle for a long time and are without a partner at the moment. Most are known by many of the people who attend the event and are regarded as friends. Others have been vouched for and/or certified at one time or another by people who frequent the events or are on one of the swing sites.  All single guys MUST email us to get prior approval to attend.  We need to know your screenname on which ever lifestyle site you are on which includes a completely filled out profile & pictures that we can see. Far too often we've encountered guys who think that because these people are swingers all they have to do is show up and they're going to get laid. Let's tell you right now...it's not going to happen.
The Lifestyle is primarily a "couple's" thing. There are some couples who enjoy having an extra male around from time to time but just because you're there isn't a guarentee that it's going to be your lucky day. We're aware that all single men think they're something special but the sad fact is...Single men are a dime a dozen and unless you're bringing something special to the table (and we're not talking about the size of your member here)... you're just going to be one more face in the crowd. We closely control the number of single men to 1 for every 10 couples at a social. If too many single guys arrive the latest arriving ones will be asked to leave. We reserve the right to ask anyone at anytime to leave. It is at our discretion.


Here are a few things that will ABSOLUTELY guarentee you not getting anywhere at this (or other) event(s):
1) A Sloppy Appearance in both your clothing and your hygene.
2) Innappropriate touching. It's not a great way to make an introduction and unless they've made it clear they're interested... don't even try.
3) DO NOT under any circumstances lurk around waiting for opportunities to get women alone. If their male half leaves for a minute it is not your chance to make a pass at a woman.

Here are three Cardinal Rules about the Lifestyle that will help you understand what's going on:
1) PEOPLE IN THE LIFESTYLE ARE NOT IN THIS BECAUSE THEY HAVE AN UNHAPPY MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP. THEY'RE NOT IN IT BECAUSE THEY HAVE A BAD SEX LIFE EITHER.
2) THE WOMAN HAS ALLLLLLL OF THE CONTROL. Thinking otherwise will make it a very short evening of things for you.
3) NO and NO-THANK-YOU mean just that. It isn't personal and you shouldn't take it that way. There has to be a Physical/Mental attraction or it's just not going to happen. Standing there pleading your case will only assure you to be rejected further... not to mention possibly asked to leave the event.

A final Rule to follow:
If a woman is obviously single...treat her with respect and DO NOT pounce on her.
She is there as our guest and even though she's in the Lifestyle...she deserves to be treated well...not like the " Free Fuck" you might imagine her to be.

If you made it through all of this and you still would like to attend please feel free to do so and we hope you have success but please remember...because you're a single guy, your actions will always be suspect until proven otherwise.